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FemDom Boot Camp : An Intermediate Intensive for FemDom in Relationships


New to Female Domination and not sure where to start? Do you want something more specific than a 101 course can offer? Feel like you have the basics but want to delve further. FemDom Bootcamps are designed for everyone. Feel free to attend them all or pick and choose the topics to your liking. 

While we've done all day intensives before, this series is designed with EVEN MORE specificity. Together with a team of Pro-Dommes, we have designed each progression with careful thought. Mistress Shayla, Queen Delphine and Mistress Bridgette will make select appearances pending the subject matter. At the end of each day there will be an optional 60-90 minute add on course to gain skills in a specific area. 

This is part of a larger series of intermediate style classes catered to specific needs and interests.

FemDom 102 : FemDom in Relationships

FemDom 103 : Couples Switch Class (Switch being someone who can identify as both Dom and sub

FemDom 104 : Going Pro - So you want to take peoples money

FemDom 105 : FemDom in the real world - how to use your power for good and influence people

and much more!

Consider this your crash course. An all day intensive we will be able to delve deeper into specific areas within domination and perfect your craft with individualized coaching. Wether you're looking to involve domination in your sex life, your career, or just in everyday conversation - Tools of the Domme are invaluable.

There is no single "right" way within FemDom. Every Domme has their own style, and every sub requires a different approach. DommeLabs are designed to give you the tools you need to be a badass bitch in and out of the bedroom. Refine your skills, gain new inspiration, methods, and embrace your inner Domme. Learn how to seduce your partner into playing submissively. Bounce your sick and twisted ideas off of a group of Domme-minded peers in DommeThink, where the best meddling can be made.

This class is open to individuals of all genders and orientations interested in FemDom from a dominant or submissive perspective. All individuals who identify as female are elligible to be a Domme-in-Training.

In this class we will answer questions like....

What does one get out of this as the Domme?

When and how do I bring this up with my partner?

How do you know someones breaking point? What do you do when you hit it?

How do I create a safe space for my partner?

What does this look like in our day to day lives?

***drinks and snacks will be provided***


Day 1 -  FemDom 102: The Prologue

* A less hands-on, more informational day *

  • How do I introduce this to someone in an exciting way? Learn the difference between shitty and respectful Dom/mes

  • What does someone get out of this? What's in it for you? Whats in it for them? How to best navigate what you and your partner would respond well to

  • How FemDom can enhance your relationship

  • Creating a safe non-physical space: learn the importance and many ways of creating that space where someone can be at their most vulnerable.

  • What to do when a scene breaks : Sometimes things don't always go as planned. How to recover and imporvise to give both you and your partner the best experience.

  • What to do if you fuck up: We need to be prepared - as well as learn how to best avoid or mitigate these moments. 

  • Mental Domination: Using roleplay encourage unbridaled behavior

  • Different Strokes: When your partner and yourself have differing fantasies and/or kinks.

  • Breaking Points: Being aware of them. What they can look like. How we approach them. 

  • Types of FemDom relationships from simple Girl on Top to 24/7.

7-8:30p Add on course: Water Sports & other things. How does one actually prepare to urinate on someone? What do you do after it happens? Why would someone find this enjoyable to give OR receive? It's not always as simple as "peeing on someone". We discuss the difference between the mental attraction and "trying to pee on your lover in the shower to see if you're into it". This is more of an informational add-on class than a participatory one but if someone wants to donate their body to science, I'm sure we can make it of use. 



Day 2 - SWITCH CLASS: for couples who like to play both roles - Dom/me and sub. 

* A more hands on day *

Spend time trying on a variety of style and approaches before you break for aftercare and switch roles. We wont delve too deep on any of these as we're more scratching the surface to see if there are any surprises in what we might respond well to.

  • Sensation inventory & Sensory Deprivation: The process to physical vulnerability

  • Interrogation / mind games - Mental domination: The process to mental vulnerability

  • Humiliation and Worship: The building blocks to these ever expansive topics

  • Sissification & Emasculation : Getting in touch with our feminine sides.

  • Cuckolding : When our partner is with another lover

  • Teasing: playing with pleasure

  • Objectification

  • Wrestling / Fight for Top scenarios: What happens when you fight back and lose? What about where you fight back and are given attention

7-8:30 Add on course : Predicament bondage. Like bondage but with an added twist of games.  Predicament bondage is a style of bondage where the bottom has a choice between two or more unpleasant positions or outcomes. We will discuss why a top or bottom would find this pleasurable, discuss safety and Mistress Shayla will show us a few of her favorite techniques. 





For Single Submissives of any gender orientation who wish to attend the class can expect two or more Dommes assigned to them throughout the day for various assignments. As you will now know this person prior please do not expect sexual contact of any kind. That is at the descretion of each individual. As the Domme's learn different ways to rule you will be exposed to the variety of routes of submission and see what appeals most to you. While you do this, the Dommes will learn how to determine pain thresholds, aftercare and more....  



About the instructor:

Lola Jean is Sex Educator, Fetish Wrestler, Pro Domme, Writer and self proclaimed Olympian Squirter. Through both personal and professional experience, Lola brings a refreshing understanding to sex and kink to push individuals past what they think they are capable of. Lola offers a variety of FemDom, Wrestling, Squirting, and Masturbation classes and frequently makes appearances performing at House of Yes and The Box. Lola's background in the mental health field gives her a deep understanding to the mental blocks many individuals may face. A sex geek to the core, Lola continues to develop her teachings and avenues where she can spread her sexpertise to the world.