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FemDom Boot Camp :: An Intermediate Series


  • 245 West 29th Street New York, NY, 10001 United States (map)

While we've done all day intensives before, this series is designed with EVEN MORE specificity. Together with a team of Pro-Dommes, we have designed each progression with careful thought. Mistress Shayla, Queen Delphine and Mistress Bridgette will make select appearances pending the subject matter. At the end of each day there will be an optional add on course to gain or show off skills in a specific area. (OPTIONAL) The final evening, head to an offsite FemDom party to practice your new found skills in the wild.

Day 1 - The Prologue

* A less hands-on, more informational day *

10 - 10:30 : Introductions and Welcome

10:30 - 11:30 How do I introduce this to someone in an exciting way?

  • Learn the difference between shitty and respectful Dom/mes

  • What does someone get out of this? What's in it for you? Whats in it for them? How to best navigate what you and your partner would respond well to

  • How FemDom can enhance your relationship

  • Types of FemDom relationships from simple Girl on Top to 24/7.

11:30-12:30 sub Etiquette

  • How to maintain Safety & Control as a submissive without topping from the bottom

  • How to behave to get what you want (that works for you)

12:30-1:30 Break // Lunch

1:30-2:30 Sensation inventory & Sensory Deprivation: The process to physical vulnerability

2:30-3:00 Creating a safe non-physical space: learn the importance and many ways of creating that space where someone can be at their most vulnerable.

3:00-3:30 When a scene breaks

  • Sometimes things don't always go as planned. How to recover and improvise to give both you and your partner the best experience.

  • What to do if you fuck up: We need to be prepared - as well as learn how to best avoid or mitigate these moments.

  • Breaking Points: Being aware of them. What they can look like. How we approach them.

3:30 - 4:00 Different Strokes: When your partner and yourself have differing fantasies and/or kinks.

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5-6:30p Add on course: Water Sports & other things. How does one actually prepare to urinate on someone? What do you do after it happens? Why would someone find this enjoyable to give OR receive? It's not always as simple as "peeing on someone". We discuss the difference between the mental attraction and "trying to pee on your lover in the shower to see if you're into it". This is more of an informational add-on class than a participatory one but if someone wants to donate their body to science, I'm sure we can make it of use.

Day 2 - SWITCH CLASS: for couples who like to play both roles - Dom/me and sub.

Spend time trying on a variety of style and approaches before you break for aftercare and switch roles. We wont delve too deep on any of these as we're more scratching the surface to see if there are any surprises in what we might respond well to.

10:00 - 10:30 introduction to Mental Domination: Using roleplay encourage unbridled behavior

  • when / if pushing boundaries, how far do you take it?

10:30 - 12:00 Interrogation / mind games - Mental domination: The process to mental vulnerability

12:00-1:00 Break // Lunch

1:30 - 2:00 Humiliation and Worship: The building blocks to these ever expansive topics

2:00-2:30 Sissification & Emasculation : Getting in touch with our feminine sides.

2:30 - 3:00 Cuckolding : When our partner is with another lover

3:00 - 3:30 Teasing: playing with Pleasure & Objectification

3:30 - 4:30 Wrestling / Fight for Top scenarios: What happens when you fight back and lose? What about where you fight back and are given attention

8:00pm onwards OPTIONAL :: attend a FemDom party at the Goddess Loft to put your skills to the test

Earlier Event: August 2
FemDom 101 (pre-cursor to bootcamp)
Later Event: August 11
Sexy MOVIE NIGHT