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Couples Retreat :: A Weekend in Paradise


Pagans Paradise presents: a weekend intensive Erotic Retreat!

Location in TBA - likely Brooklyn!

Connect with your partner like never before. Whether it’s a stay-cation a vacation or somewhere in between. Jet away to a sex positive and inclusive haven in the concrete jungle to connect with your own body and learn about others. Perfect for those coming from Connecticut, Long Island and Jersey!

This weekend intensive provides the unique opportunity to build off of learning in REAL TIME. A combination of Pagans Paradise’s most popular classes plus many exclusive only available for the erotic retreat. All workshops, intensives and private sessions with the goal of connecting and understanding your partner to bring both of you closer together and closer to unleashing the desires you did not know existed within you.

Along with optional breakout lessons for specific coursework in BDSM, expect to gain knowledge on both the physical and psychologically sexual level. Each couple will get a complimentary one-on-one (a $250 value) with Aaron or Lola based on their interests and desires. 

Each day there will be a variety of classes, exercises and opportunities to perfect your skills and evolve your sexual relationship and dynamic. From nearly-naked yoga to G-spot/ P-Spot intensive to Tantric focus. Saturday night will culminate with a play party to relax, play, and connect with each other (or others, should you feel so inclined).

Friday night, arrive for welcome drinks and a relaxing erotic massage class as you get to know your surroundings. Begin your next morning with a yoga workshop before our staff caters your breakfast. 

Throughout the day, engage in as many workshops as you'd like or enjoy the scenery and facilaties, take a dip in the hot tub or steam up in the shower.

All meals, accommodations, beer and wine are included in the price. Please note the ticket is for a deposit only, remainder of the price will be due one week prior to the retreat. Alternatively you can pay your deposit to 

Paypal: 3FSNYC@gmail.com

Venmo: @lolajean

If you do not wish to stay in the facilities for the weekend there is a Day ticket available for purchase. For day ticket-ers you can either choose to find you own accomodation near the facility or attend only the Saturday/Sunday sessions.

Early Bird Couples Ticket $950 (regular price $1250)

Early Bird Day Ticket $450 (regular price $650)

If you are a triad please contact thelolajean@gmail.com for ticket options.

Sample Itinerary 

*to be finalized

Day 1 - Friday - Get Loose

  • Welcome Drinks / Meet and Greet

  • Introduction to Sexual Rediscovery Course: How to discuss and navigate sexual conversations and consent

  • Erotic Massage Class

Day 2 - Saturday - Focus on Each Other

  • (Nearly) Naked Yoga : Start the day off with acknowelding your body and it's capabilites

  • Tantric Intensive : What is Tantra and how should you incorporate it?

  • Kink 101 & Sensation Play : Where to begin with Kink & Find Your THING

  • Optional Breakouts: Impact Play / FemDom / Prostate / GSpot Workshops

  • Individualized sex coaching available for signup

  • Oral Fixation : Put Your Money Where Your Mouth IS

  • Wrestling for Lovers : Bring Playfighting to the Bedroom

  • Play Party!

Day 3 - Sunday - Focus on Yourself

  • Continuing sexual communication and How to introduce new elements, kink, or partners to your relationship

  • Break out : Male Internal Orgasm // Female Masturbation // Squirting

  • Masturbation Puppetry

  • Homework assignments and good byes!


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